Mother's Day

This is my 5th year so called celebrating Mother's Day. Kepingin lah sangat nak rasa di pampered from my DH and my girl on this special day but have to face reality my little girl is only 4+ so tak leh nak harapkan sangat anyway she is just so sweet. Early in the morning she has already wish me a happy mothers day and give me the biggest kiss and hug ever and she did a drawing to represent a mothers day card and she is my little helper for the day, helping me with the housework here and there. As for my DH urgh.......dia sibuk ngan his revision and even tak ada revision pun my DH is not the that sort kind of guy to give me a special treatment unless i dah terlantar atas katil sakit baru lah my DH did help in the house chores and also asking me do i need anything other than that nope zero so reality check, buat sendiri all the housework and cooking.

Lepas keje rumah selesai i terus masuk dapur and masak 2 mcm lauk, malas nak masak mcm-mcm jenis, ayam masak merah & tumis sayur kobis ngan kentang & suun dah simple and sedap. Lepas solat zohor i baru nak letak my kepala untuk baring rasa mcm nak lelap mata seminit dua my mil announce yg my sil will be coming to our house, lerr so terpaksa lah i padamkan saja niat i untuk zzzz. The thing that yang i bingit is my DH lah ni dah tau i ni dah siap masak dia boleh announce untuk gi Pizza Hut for a mothers day celebration, lerr siang-siang lagi tak nak ckp anyway kita pun tak tau yg my sil nak dtg so since she is coming and also her son birthday is today so my DH say lets go out for a meal. The two dishes that i cook end up in the fridge so hari ni senang sikit lah i tak yah lah nak rush home balik to cook dinner, my mil boleh tolong panaskan the lauk so rilek lah sikit i ari ni.

The Mother's Day Cake (bought by my yougest sil to our surprise)

Me with my sweetheart posing with the mothers day cake

A Long Stay @ Home Weekend

Ish rasa nya mcm hari Isnin but actually its a Tuesday. Its been a long weekend stay @ home weekend cause its time of the year again my DH terkena exam fever. So he's been at home since last Wednesday and he will be on leave until 10th May, woi lama tu kan.

Hari Sabtu kemarin kita kluar kejap jer sebab nak do marketing kalau tidak mcm mana i nak masak and that day i kena buat bergedil sebab my mil nya sister nak buat kenduri so my mil nak contribute bergedil so hari sabtu tu dari kul 2.30 petang hingga lah ke pukul 8 malam i bermandi dengan kentang wow penat wow. That day i masak simple jer, mee soto since dah buat bergedil kan. As for Sunday i masak lontong request from my princess. Since both my DH and I tak bring her for any outing i have to make it a fun weekend kan so project nya baking cup cakes so after having our lunch kita kluar gi NTUC to buy all the necessary ingredients and sampai jer rumah tak sabar-sabar terus jer start our baking project. I really enjoy my time with little girl baking and not to mentioned the funny sight or her licking the frosting in between spreading it on the cupcakes, tak per lah kan anak sendiri, yang nak makan pun kita-kita satu family.

busy doing the frosting

The end result, Chocolate Cupcakes

The cupcakes does not look so appealing kan but the taste is nice and tak manis to my liking and surprisingly my mil pun cakap sedap and she is the fussy one when comes to baking and terus terang she does not have the confident in me when come to baking and when the cupcakes turns out alright she was surprise and she did mention next time boleh buat lagi, ok lah if u say so.

This weekend I akan buat baking project again with my little darling don't know what to bake yet but its gonna be fun, fun, fun

Hello Again

Ya ampun lama benor i dah tak mengupdate rumah/tempat curahan luahan hati i, ha, ha, ha pagi lagi dah emo. Tak lah pagi sangat but still dalam ruangan pagi kan. Memang lah i terlalu sibuk but not a good excuse kan but nescaya lah i tak lupakan rumah i satu ni.

A lot of things happen kalau nak pen semua satu hari pun tak game and satu whole page of my blog pun tak cukup. But yang paling shocking buat i is my sweet little girl at 4 years of age she snip her own hair, yes gunting rambut dia yang cantik, panjang and curly which a lot of people envy, mcm nak gugur jantung i bila i come home from work dengan sweetly nya she say

A : Ibu nice or not i cut my hair and now no need to cut already i have done it myself
Me : Mak audrey gunting rambut dia!!!
Mil : huh? mak tak tau, tak nampak
Me : Darling why u cut yr hair and where?
A : I want to have short hair and i cut it in the play room using babah scissors

Nak apa kan dah gunting, nak marah pun dah tak boleh, hai so what to do bring her to a salon and cut her same same length lah and the salon charge me $18.00! for a little girl to cut hair is expensive, i paid only $15.00 to get my hair cut.

I tayangkan gambar my little girl playing at an old train track @ Bt Timah which my DH amik, ni kirakan gambar kenangan lah my girl with her wavy long hair


Tak per lah her hair will grow again and i keep on reminding her do not do cut her own hair ever again. She simply look at me and say what ever ibu. Hai geram betul lah i ngan anak i sorang ni.

Oh ya last Sunday was girl sports day, it was her 2nd time and this year she totally enjoy it, tak nangis lagi bila i tease her she say i am a big girl now i don't cry anymore. Last year b4 going to the stadium melalak-lalak tak nak pergi but this year she don't want to go home sebab ada her BFF with her and they enjoy playing together.

Doing her warm-up, serious tau

Her event riding the skate scooter pas tu run then throw in a bean bag into a net

Tadaa my princess ngan her bff enjoying air batu on a hot sunny day

Running around with her bestie even though the sun is scorching hot!

With her classmates jumping for joy they got gold!! Yipee!!

It's good to see that my little girl has grown and she is enjoying school so much tapi yang i tak sanggup nya 1 patah i ckp sepuluh patah dia jawab..........

1st Week

Ai diam tak diam 1st week of Jan gone, ai cepat nya masa berlalu so much things to do but so little time. My schedule dah back to waking up at 5.30am sebab my girl dah back to school and so far Alhamdullilah she is loving school and enjoying every minute of it. During the school holidays dia sibuk tanya i, ibu when am i going back to school, i am bored at home. Ai kecik-kecik lagi dah tau feel bored. Kesian pulak tengok anak i tak gi mana-mana during the school holidays but both my DH and I make sure that every weekend we did some activities and also my DH took leave during the weekdays to bring her out.

My girl is at a rebellious stage now, misalan lah kalau she wants something i say no the more she will challenge me and my DH will try to bargain with her like for eg kalau dia wants snacks and right after her dinner wat i do is i will ask her ok i will give you yr chips but wat happen if you don't finish it, wat do you think i will do and pas tu dia start lah stare at my face dengan muka kesian dia and i terpaksa lah kuatkan hati not to give in to her every demand and she will say ibu will scold and pinch me then i firmly i ask her are you sure, really sure then you may have your chips and selalu nya dia tak jadi amik pun, i know my girl is trying to test water with me and i kekadang rasa bersalah juga cause i have to be the strict parent at home sebab my girl dah terlalu manja ngan both metua i what ever dia nak sure akan dpt. Sometime i bertekak ngan metua i when come to discipline anak I. Tapi so far ok lah anak i tak lah terlampau nakal sampai tak dengar ckp i and i do give her reward for a good behaviour.

Baru lah sekarang I rasa apa yang my parent rasa bukan nya senang nak membesarkan anak. Anak i baru 1 but my parent dulu 6 termasuk I tapi i akan cuba sedaya upaya to be the best mum for my little precious and i love her more than my own life.

Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh...........cepat nya masa berlalu, rasa nya mcm baru semalam sambut tahun baru 2010 tup tup dah masuk 2011. Hai dah tua lah i ni, eh tak tua cuma more mature now he, he, he.

Hmph new year resolution, hmph like last year tak ada. I akan berusaha sedapa upaya i untuk menjadi isteri, ibu, menantu, kakak-ipar dan adik yang terbaik mungkin dan to be the best secretary to my boss ever, ni bukan ampu eh cuma I want to be the best that I can be.

Tahun ni i tak berpeluang bercuti ngan my family, InsyaAllah next year we will be going somewhere, belum confirm the destination but definitely somewhere yang dekat jer lah itu pun kalau ada rezeki yang lebih sebab my DH dah go back to school kan so that is more important.

Next year anak i dah masuk K1 kejap kan hai tak perasan bila anak i besar rasanya mcm kecik lagi anak I. My wish for her is that she has the best childhood ever.......

Ok lah nak kena log out now, even though its new year's eve but my office tetap open like normal office hour tak ada half day, boring kan tapi what to do, keje jer lah........

Manja

Hmph my friend commented yg i ni terlalu manjakan anak i tersangat-sangat. Ye ker? rasa i no, sebab kalau anak i nakal i akan reprimand her immediately and i do punish her and taking away her privileges . The thing is diaorang yang comment ni tak tinggal sebumbung ngan I so diaorang tak nampak lah bila i menyinga kat anak I and how i discipline her. Yang diaorang nampak adalah benda-benda yang either my DH or I belikan untuk anak i sorang ni but that does not mean i ni manjakan anak.

Last weekend my DH belikan anak i her very own guitar the real one bukan toy. Actually she has been bugging my DH for her very own guitar for like months but my DH hold back sebab we want to see whether she really wants it for real or just a phase and she really shows that she genuinely want her very own guitar sebab bila my DH ngah practice my girl pun sibuk sama and she will imitate her father cara dia hold her toy guitar and kehulu-kehilir ngan gitar toy dia and she told her father babah i want to go on stage like u play guitar and she has been onstage with her father bila babah dia perform few times and that is why she does not have any stage fright.

My DH has expose my girl ngan music at a very early stage and so naturally lah since her father is a musician so anak dia pun ikut jejak babah dia lah and as for me as a mother i will support in every thing that she does and i feel its good for her to start early. So far my DH just let her strum the guitar and bila my girl dah boleh listen to full instruction then baru lah kita enroll for her music lesson InsyaAllah.

My girl with her very own guitar, gambar ni memang lah kecik sangat sebab i sebat from my DH nya FB pics but will upload a video of her strumming her guitar, hopefully soon once i belajar cara-cara nak mengupload the video fm my hp sebab i ni kan IT idiot.

Updates

Wow dah lama juga yer i tak mengupdate my blog, hai the opportunity does not coincide lah, bila at home sibuk lah sangat ngan keje rumah and layan my little princess and bila at work keje bukan main belambak, nak curi-curi update pun tak kesempatan.

Alhamdullilah my DH dah pun abis his exam and we have done a lots of outing activity we were at Marina Bay on the eve of Deepavali holiday dari kul 10 sampai lah 12 midnight and my little girl jgn cakaplah ligat running around, so before we set for home i wash her up get her to pun her PJ. Naik je kereta terus abis lepak and she woke up after 10am on Friday which is a PH and i apalagi skaki lah.

Alhamdullilah Hari Raya Haji tahun ni i buat Aqiqah anak I, cuma gambar dia belum upload lagi masih in storage in the camera. But gambar anak i and my nephew my DH dah upload which was taken on Hari Raya Haji

My nephew dah 6 months old and everytime he came over teruk dia kena kerja ngan anak I, she will grip and hugs him tightly. Cute kan the two of them!

Last Saturday there was an event at East Coast Park, Carnival Warna Ria and my girl was one of the finalist for the Beach Gal competition, my DH lah yang submit my little girl nya photo for the event and there was 6 finalist. But i nak citer sikit lah about this particular typical malay parent or mother to be precise, i bukan nak nak buruk-burukan my own race because i pun orang melayu kan but one of the finalist mum she was really, really overboard, I mean can u imagine she dress her girl exactly like those u saw at the Hawaii beach siap ngan bunga at the girl's hand, head and even her neck and that little girl has a full make up on her face with a bright red lipstick and putting on her mum's shade OMG! I tak tau lah brapa umur this girl but the competition is for kids age between 3 to 6 years of age and i feel like telling her, wei relax lah sister u dont have to put pressure on yr girl, let her be and let her enjoy and have fun with her peers and not having a big burden on her shoulder that i must win this competition cause she keeps on drumming at her girl, mesti jalan mcm ni, mesti senyum and mesti ini, mesti itu and yada-yada. Ini lah dia kelemahan orang melayu bila part mcm ni diaorang mesti nak dulu-dulu menang but when come to serious part like studies ada lembap sikit. As for my girl she is chosen to be one of the finalist is good enough for me its not like a life and death situation. I just dress simple jer, her one piece suit and her denim skirt with her own shade dah and i told when u go up there just do your best and have fun, its ok if you are not chose to be number 1, i still luv you no matter what. When its time for all the 6 girls to be on stage this kiasu mum sibuk at the side stage sampaikan i kena sound at her hello excuse me, my girl needs to go on stage baru lah dia senyum and say sori, alamak i nya bingit and looking at her i want to burst out laughing, she is overdress herself, no no bukan overdress but the way she dress up tak kena pada tempat, mana ada org pakai knee lenght boots at a beach hello!!kelakar kan kalau u all tengok pun geleng kepala. We are at the beach bukan nya orchard road just dress simply sua lah. I guess she wants to be the centre of attraction.

Anyway bila dah ramai sangat org melayu terserlah betulah keberukan or u can see the typical malay attitude so embarrasing. After the event jer my DH terus ajak kita belah go somewere else my daughter did not win but its ok the most important is she does not have any stage fright and she is able to go up there and do her struts i dah happy giler....... ok enough of the story-mory i nak tayangkan gambar anak i jadi model for one day, he, he, he

This is her playing by the beach before the event starts. She just love the sand and water.

Got her hair done before going on stage

On stage with the rest of the contestants

She is doing her strut

Kalau dah put on swimming costume tak sah lah kalau tak main air kan so she is enjoying herself at her all time favourite place, Vivo City