Hello Again

Ya ampun lama benor i dah tak mengupdate rumah/tempat curahan luahan hati i, ha, ha, ha pagi lagi dah emo. Tak lah pagi sangat but still dalam ruangan pagi kan. Memang lah i terlalu sibuk but not a good excuse kan but nescaya lah i tak lupakan rumah i satu ni.

A lot of things happen kalau nak pen semua satu hari pun tak game and satu whole page of my blog pun tak cukup. But yang paling shocking buat i is my sweet little girl at 4 years of age she snip her own hair, yes gunting rambut dia yang cantik, panjang and curly which a lot of people envy, mcm nak gugur jantung i bila i come home from work dengan sweetly nya she say

A : Ibu nice or not i cut my hair and now no need to cut already i have done it myself
Me : Mak audrey gunting rambut dia!!!
Mil : huh? mak tak tau, tak nampak
Me : Darling why u cut yr hair and where?
A : I want to have short hair and i cut it in the play room using babah scissors

Nak apa kan dah gunting, nak marah pun dah tak boleh, hai so what to do bring her to a salon and cut her same same length lah and the salon charge me $18.00! for a little girl to cut hair is expensive, i paid only $15.00 to get my hair cut.

I tayangkan gambar my little girl playing at an old train track @ Bt Timah which my DH amik, ni kirakan gambar kenangan lah my girl with her wavy long hair


Tak per lah her hair will grow again and i keep on reminding her do not do cut her own hair ever again. She simply look at me and say what ever ibu. Hai geram betul lah i ngan anak i sorang ni.

Oh ya last Sunday was girl sports day, it was her 2nd time and this year she totally enjoy it, tak nangis lagi bila i tease her she say i am a big girl now i don't cry anymore. Last year b4 going to the stadium melalak-lalak tak nak pergi but this year she don't want to go home sebab ada her BFF with her and they enjoy playing together.

Doing her warm-up, serious tau

Her event riding the skate scooter pas tu run then throw in a bean bag into a net

Tadaa my princess ngan her bff enjoying air batu on a hot sunny day

Running around with her bestie even though the sun is scorching hot!

With her classmates jumping for joy they got gold!! Yipee!!

It's good to see that my little girl has grown and she is enjoying school so much tapi yang i tak sanggup nya 1 patah i ckp sepuluh patah dia jawab..........

1st Week

Ai diam tak diam 1st week of Jan gone, ai cepat nya masa berlalu so much things to do but so little time. My schedule dah back to waking up at 5.30am sebab my girl dah back to school and so far Alhamdullilah she is loving school and enjoying every minute of it. During the school holidays dia sibuk tanya i, ibu when am i going back to school, i am bored at home. Ai kecik-kecik lagi dah tau feel bored. Kesian pulak tengok anak i tak gi mana-mana during the school holidays but both my DH and I make sure that every weekend we did some activities and also my DH took leave during the weekdays to bring her out.

My girl is at a rebellious stage now, misalan lah kalau she wants something i say no the more she will challenge me and my DH will try to bargain with her like for eg kalau dia wants snacks and right after her dinner wat i do is i will ask her ok i will give you yr chips but wat happen if you don't finish it, wat do you think i will do and pas tu dia start lah stare at my face dengan muka kesian dia and i terpaksa lah kuatkan hati not to give in to her every demand and she will say ibu will scold and pinch me then i firmly i ask her are you sure, really sure then you may have your chips and selalu nya dia tak jadi amik pun, i know my girl is trying to test water with me and i kekadang rasa bersalah juga cause i have to be the strict parent at home sebab my girl dah terlalu manja ngan both metua i what ever dia nak sure akan dpt. Sometime i bertekak ngan metua i when come to discipline anak I. Tapi so far ok lah anak i tak lah terlampau nakal sampai tak dengar ckp i and i do give her reward for a good behaviour.

Baru lah sekarang I rasa apa yang my parent rasa bukan nya senang nak membesarkan anak. Anak i baru 1 but my parent dulu 6 termasuk I tapi i akan cuba sedaya upaya to be the best mum for my little precious and i love her more than my own life.

Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh...........cepat nya masa berlalu, rasa nya mcm baru semalam sambut tahun baru 2010 tup tup dah masuk 2011. Hai dah tua lah i ni, eh tak tua cuma more mature now he, he, he.

Hmph new year resolution, hmph like last year tak ada. I akan berusaha sedapa upaya i untuk menjadi isteri, ibu, menantu, kakak-ipar dan adik yang terbaik mungkin dan to be the best secretary to my boss ever, ni bukan ampu eh cuma I want to be the best that I can be.

Tahun ni i tak berpeluang bercuti ngan my family, InsyaAllah next year we will be going somewhere, belum confirm the destination but definitely somewhere yang dekat jer lah itu pun kalau ada rezeki yang lebih sebab my DH dah go back to school kan so that is more important.

Next year anak i dah masuk K1 kejap kan hai tak perasan bila anak i besar rasanya mcm kecik lagi anak I. My wish for her is that she has the best childhood ever.......

Ok lah nak kena log out now, even though its new year's eve but my office tetap open like normal office hour tak ada half day, boring kan tapi what to do, keje jer lah........

Manja

Hmph my friend commented yg i ni terlalu manjakan anak i tersangat-sangat. Ye ker? rasa i no, sebab kalau anak i nakal i akan reprimand her immediately and i do punish her and taking away her privileges . The thing is diaorang yang comment ni tak tinggal sebumbung ngan I so diaorang tak nampak lah bila i menyinga kat anak I and how i discipline her. Yang diaorang nampak adalah benda-benda yang either my DH or I belikan untuk anak i sorang ni but that does not mean i ni manjakan anak.

Last weekend my DH belikan anak i her very own guitar the real one bukan toy. Actually she has been bugging my DH for her very own guitar for like months but my DH hold back sebab we want to see whether she really wants it for real or just a phase and she really shows that she genuinely want her very own guitar sebab bila my DH ngah practice my girl pun sibuk sama and she will imitate her father cara dia hold her toy guitar and kehulu-kehilir ngan gitar toy dia and she told her father babah i want to go on stage like u play guitar and she has been onstage with her father bila babah dia perform few times and that is why she does not have any stage fright.

My DH has expose my girl ngan music at a very early stage and so naturally lah since her father is a musician so anak dia pun ikut jejak babah dia lah and as for me as a mother i will support in every thing that she does and i feel its good for her to start early. So far my DH just let her strum the guitar and bila my girl dah boleh listen to full instruction then baru lah kita enroll for her music lesson InsyaAllah.

My girl with her very own guitar, gambar ni memang lah kecik sangat sebab i sebat from my DH nya FB pics but will upload a video of her strumming her guitar, hopefully soon once i belajar cara-cara nak mengupload the video fm my hp sebab i ni kan IT idiot.

Updates

Wow dah lama juga yer i tak mengupdate my blog, hai the opportunity does not coincide lah, bila at home sibuk lah sangat ngan keje rumah and layan my little princess and bila at work keje bukan main belambak, nak curi-curi update pun tak kesempatan.

Alhamdullilah my DH dah pun abis his exam and we have done a lots of outing activity we were at Marina Bay on the eve of Deepavali holiday dari kul 10 sampai lah 12 midnight and my little girl jgn cakaplah ligat running around, so before we set for home i wash her up get her to pun her PJ. Naik je kereta terus abis lepak and she woke up after 10am on Friday which is a PH and i apalagi skaki lah.

Alhamdullilah Hari Raya Haji tahun ni i buat Aqiqah anak I, cuma gambar dia belum upload lagi masih in storage in the camera. But gambar anak i and my nephew my DH dah upload which was taken on Hari Raya Haji

My nephew dah 6 months old and everytime he came over teruk dia kena kerja ngan anak I, she will grip and hugs him tightly. Cute kan the two of them!

Last Saturday there was an event at East Coast Park, Carnival Warna Ria and my girl was one of the finalist for the Beach Gal competition, my DH lah yang submit my little girl nya photo for the event and there was 6 finalist. But i nak citer sikit lah about this particular typical malay parent or mother to be precise, i bukan nak nak buruk-burukan my own race because i pun orang melayu kan but one of the finalist mum she was really, really overboard, I mean can u imagine she dress her girl exactly like those u saw at the Hawaii beach siap ngan bunga at the girl's hand, head and even her neck and that little girl has a full make up on her face with a bright red lipstick and putting on her mum's shade OMG! I tak tau lah brapa umur this girl but the competition is for kids age between 3 to 6 years of age and i feel like telling her, wei relax lah sister u dont have to put pressure on yr girl, let her be and let her enjoy and have fun with her peers and not having a big burden on her shoulder that i must win this competition cause she keeps on drumming at her girl, mesti jalan mcm ni, mesti senyum and mesti ini, mesti itu and yada-yada. Ini lah dia kelemahan orang melayu bila part mcm ni diaorang mesti nak dulu-dulu menang but when come to serious part like studies ada lembap sikit. As for my girl she is chosen to be one of the finalist is good enough for me its not like a life and death situation. I just dress simple jer, her one piece suit and her denim skirt with her own shade dah and i told when u go up there just do your best and have fun, its ok if you are not chose to be number 1, i still luv you no matter what. When its time for all the 6 girls to be on stage this kiasu mum sibuk at the side stage sampaikan i kena sound at her hello excuse me, my girl needs to go on stage baru lah dia senyum and say sori, alamak i nya bingit and looking at her i want to burst out laughing, she is overdress herself, no no bukan overdress but the way she dress up tak kena pada tempat, mana ada org pakai knee lenght boots at a beach hello!!kelakar kan kalau u all tengok pun geleng kepala. We are at the beach bukan nya orchard road just dress simply sua lah. I guess she wants to be the centre of attraction.

Anyway bila dah ramai sangat org melayu terserlah betulah keberukan or u can see the typical malay attitude so embarrasing. After the event jer my DH terus ajak kita belah go somewere else my daughter did not win but its ok the most important is she does not have any stage fright and she is able to go up there and do her struts i dah happy giler....... ok enough of the story-mory i nak tayangkan gambar anak i jadi model for one day, he, he, he

This is her playing by the beach before the event starts. She just love the sand and water.

Got her hair done before going on stage

On stage with the rest of the contestants

She is doing her strut

Kalau dah put on swimming costume tak sah lah kalau tak main air kan so she is enjoying herself at her all time favourite place, Vivo City

Exam Season

Sana sini ngah demam exam, parent yang ada anak disekolah ngah stress due to the exam period. I pun kena the bug juga but i tak stress lah tapi my DH yang stress. He is on exam leave next week and dia dah mengistiharkan yang this weekend and the whole of next week my daughter and I nak kena jagi budak baik i.e kena duduk rumah tak leh nak gi mana-mana lepas exam baru lah abis pantang baru boleh keluar.

Ok juga lah dapat juga rest and laze around at home but si kecik tu sure bising, cause every weekend we make a point to bring her out for an outing regardless near or far but now i ngah crack my head how to keep her occupy and not to disturb her babah. As for tomorrow not so bad ada jemputan so dpt juga anak i keluar kejap. Oh yah my DH agree to send both my in-laws and me to the jemputan but dengan satu syarat, he sit in the car to read his notes, ok lah tu dari i nak keluar naik taxi mana nak pegang my mil and anak i lagi.

Ok lah nak wrap things up here and get myself ready to go home, yup me pat office ari ni, my saturday duty.

I'm Four

Not me lah but my little princess, she turn four on 15.10.2010, phew yo how fast time flies. Macam baru semalam i held her in my arm a tiny little baby and now dah 4 years old and before i know it she will be all grown up, adoi kalau boleh i nak freeze her and don't want her to grow up cause she is so damn cute, cute lah sangat-sangat and she is such a chatter box ada je yang nak dibualkan.

There is no birthday celebration at home but we did have a celebration at her school with her friends one day ahead sebab her birthday fall on Friday and the children cuma ada 2 hrs of lesson so a little bit rushing so we had the party on Thursday instead. I took a day off to spend time with my little princess and that night we brought both my metua out for dinner. On Friday i took half day, fetch my girl from home and then brought her to her father's soccer game followed by a birthday dinner at Swenson with both her godfathers and paid by one of them.

The birthday cake, actually she requested for princess birthday cake but i had hard time to find a cake shop that open early in the morning or to have the cake delivered to my girl school by 9.00 am, nasib baik lah Prima cake shop ada branch which just a five minutes drive from my girl school and it opens at 7.30am so just nice lah i can collect the cake at 8.30 and its a good thing they have pictures ada kena mengena ngan princess even though its not but at least its a pretty girl picture and its in pink colour.

This year i manage to control myself, which means i tak nangis lah sebab last year when she celebrate her 3rd birthday with her playgroup classmate i melalak sebab rasa sebak betul tengok anak i dah besar so this year i tell myself dont cry what ever happen dont cry and i did not!

Sempat fooling around before washing their hands for cake cutting and singing session

All the children gather around to sing my girl her birthday song

Blowing the 4 candles on the cake

With all her girls classmates - 7 of them

With her boys classmates - 15 of them

With her teacher

Banyak lagi gambar yg we take but tak kan lah i nak upload semua kan but after her party she has a request, ibu for my next birthday i want to have a birthday party at a pool so my friends can swim with me and don't forget i wants lots and lots of balloons, adoi anak i dah pandai make a request lak but my DH says ok sebab anak i dah faham and will remember her birthday party so InsyaAllah kalau ada rezeki lebih we will have a pool birthday party for her.